A521.1.4.RB - Your Favorite Storytelling Leader

Select a story told by a leader that left an impression on you. This leader can be from your organization, community, or even a famous individual. Describe the story and what about it that made it memorable and/or perhaps positively affected your life. Synthesize the module content and share your insights into the following:

1. Was the leader clear in the purpose of the story?
2. Did they effectively communicate a vision?
3. Did they seek to create a feeling that you understood their communication?
4. Were you able to tune in with your felt sense?

In December, our base leaders decided to enact a Resilience Task Force due to growing concerns with our Airmen after a second suicide in six months and several DUIs.  Part of the this endeavor was to bring motivational speakers to speak to the Airmen and share their stories of resiliency.  We had the opportunity to hear Mr. Jared Estes talk about his experience and how he overcame depression.  Estes was the victim of a drunk driving accident that killed his wife and left him with 3rd degree burns on half of his body.  He has had to endure more than 50 surgeries and has to deal with lifelong pain and loss of functionality.  His story explained how he was able to emerge from the dark time in his life and overcome the struggles by gaining a new perspective to FIRE BACK.  

Jared's purpose was to communicate that we all face trials in our lives but are able to persevere.  His story was compelling and passionate.  He was able to communicate who he was and while challenging us to view the impact of our choices through a new filter.  He connected with the audience by sharing his story in a way that made us realize that it could've been any one of us in that vehicle.  His story revealed strength and vulnerability and showed what he took from the experience. (Denning, p.27) As he shared his experiences he created a Felt Sense in the audience. (Whalen, 2007)  I remember being heartbroken and on the verge of tears when he described the crash and finding out that his wife was dead.  As Jared illustrated his struggle to overcome the trials, I felt his pain.  When he finished his story and explained how we can all persevere, I believed that I could overcome anything.  

Jared's story reminded us that life goes on.  His vision to FIRE BACK and overcome obstacles was inspiring.  Not only did he communicate who he is, he was also able to spark action and get people to change their outlook.  Furthermore, he was able to tell the story right.  His style was simple and direct while his delivery was light and allowed him to connect to the audience.  His humble approach was uplifting and his message made an impact on our base community.  

Denning, S. (2011). The leader's guide to storytelling - Mastering the art and discipline of business narrative. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass.

Whalen, D. J., & Ricca, T. M. (2007). The professional communications toolkit. Thousand Oaks, Calif: Sage Publications.